Roots by Hele Flora
Before you get the chance to read it in full, I’d love to share with you a little preview. The book is divided into chapters that explore different feelings and thought constructs – like love, rejection, guilt, and shame – but not only those. There are also chapters that delve into broader themes, such as being and becoming, or the essence of that uncomfortable feeling we experience when stepping into unfamiliar waters, or when something old surfaces in our consciousness.
I’ll tell you more about the book in my next post, but until then, here’s a fragment from BLOOM! – Chapter 8: Peace.
Thank you so much for visiting me here and for being part of my world by reading my words. I’d truly love to hear your thoughts about the chapter, so please feel free to share them – either here or through my website www.heleflora.com.
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May peace be with you
♡ Hele
And now the fragment from BLOOM!: #8 Peace
We
often talk about searching for peace, but in truth, peace is not something to
be found – it is already within you. It has been with you since the beginning.
You were born with it. If you cannot feel peace, it is because it has been
buried beneath something else.
Every
unresolved thought, unaddressed emotion, and avoided situation – everything you
set aside because it feels uncomfortable – accumulates like layers, covering
your inner peace. Over time, this weight makes it difficult for peace to
breathe within you.
You
may try to live by the saying, “Out of sight, out of mind.” You may even
convince yourself that it is true. But is it really? Believing that would be
like believing that if you didn’t look into a mirror for a long time, you would
forget your own existence. Just as you would never truly forget yourself, a
part of you will always remember the thoughts, emotions, judgments, and
experiences stored in the “unanswered” department within you and will stay
stuck, waiting for the moment when you are finally ready to look into them,
feel them and open yourself to possible solutions.
When
we don’t want to confront something, we ignore it. But what needs
to be acknowledge will continue to appear in our lives until we are willing to
face it. To meet something means to welcome it – to allow and
to embrace it as it is, without judgement, resentment, or unkindness.
For
that reason, your peace remains hidden until the day it becomes your top
priority. This is the day when you’re done with ignoring,
suppressing and judging your feelings. You quit measuring yourself by someone
else’s standards, trying to fit into their mindset, their frames, their boxes.
You are ready to understand.
Then,
like lightning cutting through the sky, a shift takes place. As always, after
the storm, the air becomes crystal-clear. Suddenly, a profound silence fills
your world. That silence is peace – finally free, finally stretching, finally
breathing within you. You realize that measuring yourself by someone else’s
expectations is for those who are not yet strong enough to live without it.
From
that moment on, two questions will accompany you:
· Will I
spend my present moments running from my past, or will I choose each day to
live mindfully and wholeheartedly?
How can I choose it more right now?
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