Dare To Write Your Story So You Love It Yourself!

 

In Japanese, there is a term called Oubaitori that reminds one to not compare themselves to others. We each have a completely unique path. We have different goals with our lives while we live in different timelines. That makes our lives incomparable.

Dare to be bold and not compare yourself to those who have what you dream of, because in reality you don't really know what they have and if you would really like it, if it fell on your lap about this time tomorrow. Another thing, dare to be kind to yourself as the storyteller you are!

You are the storyteller of your own story. It is you who designs your story by telling it to you first. It is your story, so you decide. It is you who decides how it was, it is you who attaches every single meaning to every single situation that took place in your past. If you don't like the story, for God's sake, change it! Change it now! Don't pity party! Just change it! If something feels heavy and makes you unhappy, it is definitely not a true story, but somebody's point-of-view that you bought and still believe, even though it do not match with you. And since it don't, just let it fall, give it up and make yourself a new story. Shift the element, so that your story will make more sense to you. Be courageous and dare to look at your story from some new perspectives. Look at through the eyes of those who empower and inspire you, if you can't find a good perspective yourself. Change peak points and instead of focusing on gremlins, gather your focus on what has gone right. Tell your story that makes you feel like a radiant, powerful, wise and courageous traveler you are and nothing less. 

If you don't feel powerful, then it is because somewhere on the way you decided to give your power away by not honouring it or being afraid of having it.

If you don't feel beautiful, then it is because somewhere on the way you decided to give your beauty away by being afraid or worried, feeling ashamed or guilty. 

If you don't feel brilliant, then it is because somewhere on the way you decided to give your brilliance away by taking less space. 

But you are not here to be less, but to inspire, express and shine. It is time to take that power back and be honest and sincere, just as you expect from others. When you dare to be your everything apologetically, then you don't feel the need to criticize other for it either.  

You are like a mandala - one of a kind... 

Let us enjoy the beauty, magic and inspiration you bring to the world. 

The world is waiting to hear from you.

Sing louder, dance with greater swings, paint with wilder strokes, write with bolder words...

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May peace be with you.

♡ Hele

The Awareness of Making Difference. Gently, But Fiercely.

 

“𝕀𝕗 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕨𝕒𝕟𝕥 𝕥𝕠 𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕤𝕦𝕗𝕗𝕖𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕚𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕝𝕕, 𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕟 𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕒𝕝𝕝 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕚𝕤 𝕕𝕒𝕣𝕜 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕟𝕖𝕘𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕚𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕗. 𝕋𝕣𝕦𝕝𝕪, 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕘𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥𝕖𝕤𝕥 𝕘𝕚𝕗𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕘𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕚𝕤 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕤𝕖𝕝𝕗-𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕤𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕞𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟.”

- Lao Tzu -

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We can be and do so much more when we switch from the mind to the heart, because it is our mind that convinces us that we stand alone while our heart lives in an endless togetherness & oneness.

Our mind has the need to protect and fight in order to survive while our heart believes in the strength of sharing knowledge, skills and resources, the strength of community.

The mind always looks for the differences and good reasons to build walls, while our heart constantly looks for what we all have in common in order to build on that.


Hence, please remember that you are energy just as your deeds, thoughts, words & emotions. Your vibe counts.


Your vibe shines (and creates!!) through the choices you make on a daily basis. The energy you put out in the world by being you affects the well-being of all of us and our Mother Earth.




𝒮𝑜 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒸𝒶𝓃 𝓂𝒶𝓀𝑒 𝒶 𝒹𝒾𝒻𝒻𝑒𝓇𝑒𝓃𝒸𝑒!You can make a difference by living from love, because only then you can meet others in love.

• You can make a difference by living from kindness, because only then you can meet others with kindness.
• You can make a difference by living from peace, because only then you can meet others in peace.
• You can make a difference by choosing to focus on all the things good and empowering, because only then you create goodness and empowerment for those around you.

When it comes to self-care, it isn’t just about your positive habits. It is about taking the responsibility for the well-being of the entire planet by embodying each day the kind of vibe you want to live in here. That will be your legacy.



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May peace be with you.

♡ Hele

The Process of Recalibration

 

𝕀𝕟 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕨𝕒𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕤 𝕠𝕗 𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕘𝕖, 𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕠𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕒 𝕟𝕖𝕨 𝕕𝕚𝕣𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 𝕥𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕤 𝕥𝕚𝕞𝕖.


The decision of choosing a new way is a bold one. When it is taken, you know that nothing will stay the same. There won’t be two stones in your pavement that will remain on top of each other in the way they were before. You will be built up anew.


When going into the process of change, at first it seems bad and then it seems really bad. (And in every once in a while, it might seem even a bit worse than that). You feel every single weakness and fear that exists within you. You feel little, helpless, confused and stuck. Fortunately, it is all in your head. Your mind has lost control over the changes taking place within you. All you truly need at this point is time to rest and reflect. You also need to be patient with yourself (,so please be patient and embrace the journey!)


In the process of change, you change the direction. It is only later on you realize that what you had seen as “bad” and “really bad” was actually the power of you stopping the old flow - your old way of being and (p)receiving - and turning it towards a new direction. It is a powerful, beautiful and magical move. Just as powerful, beautiful and magical as you are.


And it is only beginning...the beginning of a new awareness, a new journey. The best is yet to come, of course, because life is about continuously creating new personal bests. But in this moment, in the middle of the change, just hold on! Hold on, breathe deeply and keep in mind that change takes time, trust and willingness to surrender.

Your present mind has little to offer to the future you, so your intuition will be the one pulling you through here. It will give your mind all the tools & maps needed for it to understand the New you have chosen. Hence, have patience. Have patience because change is like a stretch - it feels hopeless in the beginning, uncomfortable in the middle and empowering when it is done.



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May peace be with you.

♡ Hele

The Art of All Things Meaningful

 

Áigi ii mana, dat boahtá.
your time is NOW.
On aeg..



When choosing things to give your energy to, choose the ones that have a special meaning for you. Choose the things that will make your life more sacred, because these are the things that will also make you feel, realize and cherish your own sacredness more. It’s important, because after all, you are a masterpiece never to be duplicated.


Feeling the sacredness of your everyday makes you more present, more grateful and more kind. It will also help you to remember that you are here for a purpose and that will keep you on schedule.


A schedule is a good thing. It makes you use your time wisely and more effectively. You’ll begin to use it more to create joy, peace, contentment and health within and around you. You’ll use it to create and strive to wholeness in yourself and to support others in building theirs. The only cure against feeling fragmented, isolated, hurt, afraid and lonely is wholeness. And it’s love and love only, that can make us whole.


When love is not present, disharmony kicks in. It takes place in the form of intolerance, hate, disease, unforgiveness, shame, fear, war and violence. We don’t need that, because it is a waste of time. It’s the waste of your time and my time. It’s the waste of our time together. It’s the waste of the time that we don’t have, because neither of us has planned hate, hurt or fear in our daily schedules.


We don’t do it, because we know we are here with a purpose. We each come with a mission. We have come to build upon our strengths and not to destroy with our weaknesses. We have come to build upon our strengths to heal our weaknesses. And lastly, we have come here for magic - to do magic, to experience magic, to create magic in each other’s lives.
Let’s begin from the simplest, yet the most powerful …love.

Hence, surround you with the meaningful.
Create the meaningful - for you, for those around you & for the planet.

Your time is now.
Be fearless.
Choose love.
On aeg...






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May peace be with you.

♡ Hele