Saturday, July 6, 2024

The Cocoon of Transformation



CHANGE is made of several stages and thousands of baby steps. The time you spend on dreaming of the jump is just as important as the jump itself. You HAVE TO dream - visualize, find out which muscles to use in order to make the jump as smooth and effective as possible. You have to acquaint yourself with the whole situation - the things that may or may not affect the quality of your action,and then prepare.


Having plan A, B, C and D is just as important as having TRUST. One soars on the moment one surrenders to their worst case scenario - lives it through in the head, becomes friends with it and accepts: “Yes, THAT TOO can happen and it is okay! But it is not here now, so shake it off!”


Finding that kind of balance requires dedication, discipline, awareness and self-love. Love grows when you make space for it by accepting everything you see as your “shadow side”.
Hence,
• Embrace your limiting thoughts and fears.
• Allow yourself the victim role and all the pity.
• Accept your fears.
• Embrace the worst case scenarios.
• Admit your scars and weaknesses.
• Accept and allow the frustration you feel.
• Allow yourself to think of your CAN’Ts & WON’Ts.
• Allow yourself to get angry with you.
• Allow the sadness if it is there.

Take time for all the emotions. Allow and accept them. THEN turn up the other side of the coin and:
• Dream of your goals.
• Do the things you love.
• Spend time with people who make you feel light and who inspire you.
• Have fun - laugh, dance and sing.
• Love


It’s all good. Both ups and downs are part of the process of changing. They both are helping you to grow and develop. Your frustration creates space for achievement and contentment, your fear makes space for acceptance and love. It’s only when you see the pieces of your past that you’re still holding onto, you can begin pruning away what keeps you from believing, receiving and achieving. So are you ready to jump in? READY - SET - GO!




May peace with you as you choose your next steps.
Have a beautiful inspiring new week!


 Hele

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